Therapist explains 'Orchid vs Dandelion Child' theory and how kids react differently to trauma

Sometimes it really helps to have specific words to describe difficult experiences. Labels have their limitations, of course, but they can help prevent someone from feeling further isolated by a negative circumstance. After all, if there’s a specific phrase, analogy, etc. for what you’re going through or have gone through, then it can’t be all …

‘Every day, people are ill-prepared due to a lack of staffing’: Former barista says 90% of working at Starbucks is ‘trauma bonding’

A user on TikTok has sparked discussion after recounting her experience working at Starbucks.  Responding to a commenter claiming that the experience of working at Starbucks was one of “trauma bonding,” TikTok user and former barista Danielle (@thehighbarista) affirmed the commenter’s claim while providing her own perspective. “90% of the Starbucks experience is trauma bonding,” …

10 things worth trying during times of stress, trauma, or crisis.

This article originally appeared on 12.22.15 Regardless of what you’re going through, self-care is important. I once read something that said, “It’s not the hard times that define you, it’s how you respond.” One important tool when it comes to dealing with personal challenges is self-care. What is self-care? The University of Kentucky’s Student Affairs …

Ellie Goulding Says Ed Sheeran Cheating Rumor Caused “Trauma”

Ellie Goulding Says Ed Sheeran Cheating Rumor Caused “Trauma” Ellie Goulding is speaking out about the age-old rumor that she cheated on Ed Sheeran with former One Direction member Niall Horan. If you needed a refresher, Ellie and Ed were rumored to be dating back in 2013 after they were spotted holding hands at the …

Yaeji Is Bashing Through Generational Trauma On Her New Song ‘Done (Let’s Get It)’

Yaeji has offered fans another preview of her upcoming album, With A Hammer, by dropping her new song and video for “Done (Let’s Get It).” The themes of the song find Yaeji “taking on the mission of smashing these inter-generational cycles as a path toward healing herself and the world,” according to a press release. …

A ‘Red Wedding’ Reaction Video Has ‘Game Of Thrones’ Viewers Sharing The Trauma The Episode Caused Them

hbo This June is the 10th anniversary of “The Rains of Castamere,” better known as the Red Wedding episode of Game of Thrones. It feels longer than that — probably because the trauma it caused will last a lifetime. Some people are experiencing Walder Frey’s betrayal for the first time, however. “Nothing convinced me to …

10 Shocking Ways To Break A Trauma Bond With A Narcissist

If you’re trauma bonded with a manipulative narcissist or a psychopath, you  feel inextricably attached to them as a survival mechanism and unable to leave the relationship. You may even develop a biochemical and psychological addiction to the abuse cycle.  Trauma bonds can be powerful – but as difficult and painful as they may be, …

Twitch Trauma Dumping Controversy — WeFoundtheBody MissNerdyCurvy

The clip immediately cuts to John’s reaction to Alicia’s comment — and he’s not pleased with her confession. “Oh my god, well I’ll tell you what, MissNerdyCurvy, you know what we’re not going to do? We’re not going to talk about it in my chat, because it’s Friday, and that is a whole big bucket …

What the Sophia Rosing case reveals about racism and the viral economy of Black trauma

Analysis  This article contains descriptions of racial violence.  In a culture contending with hyper-visible incidents of racism—like leaked footage in November 2022 of influencer Sophia Rosing using racial slurs—it is essential for creators to unpack how virality around an incident of hate is profitable for social media platforms, like TikTok or Twitter, and how the …

Your (Afro-Textured) Hair Is Beautiful: The Trauma of Texturism

In our third episode in our four-part series, we’ll be diving into texturism and its impact on many Black and Latino individuals. We’ll also look at ways to gain more appreciation for your naturally beautiful coils and curls.  Dec. 1, 2022 – It’s your first day of work at a new job, and you’re a …

Armani White Transcended West Philadelphia Trauma To Make ‘Happy Hood Music’

Matt Kanz Growing up in the harsh streets of West Philadelphia, Armani White confronted the intersection of economic scarcity and personal pride. One particularly memorable day, White was riding home from elementary school on a bike his father bought him. And when an older bully tried to take it, a fight broke out. “The way …