When he won a Golden Globe for his performance in La La Land, he devoted the majority of his speech to Eva, who during filming was pregnant with Amada and parenting Esmeralda, all while her brother was fighting a losing battle with cancer. “And if she hadn’t taken all that on so that I could have this experience, it would surely be someone else up here today, so, sweetheart, thank you.”

However, there is tremendous pressure on working moms in particular to project an air of “you can have it all.” Sometimes, this might cause them to worry that talking candidly about the help they need may make it seem as though they don’t play an active role parenting their kids. But thankfully, some celebs are realizing it’s just as harmful not to acknowledge the simple truth that no one person can parent full time and work full time without some help.