You and I were once husband and wife;

You and I were once husband and wife; Then you became a mother and I remained a father, you took care of the house system and I took care of the livelihood, and then you became a “housekeeping mother” and I remained a breadwinner father. When the children got hurt, you hugged and I explained, you became a loving mother and I remained only an explaining father. The children made mistakes, you became an “understanding mom” by supporting them and I remained a “non-understanding” father. By saying “Dad will be angry”, you became the “best friend” of your children. And I was left as an angry father…. You were keeping secrets from the children all day, making your future safe, and making a home in the children’s minds. And I went on ruining my today just to build the future of the house. Mother’s love began to be seen in your tears and I remained only a ruthless father in the eyes of the children. You became the moonlight of the moon and I don’t know when I became a father emitting fire like the sun. You became a “merciful and compassionate mother” and I remained only a father to bear the burden of life for all of you. This is a very bitter social picture. * Very few mothers will be found who exalt the position of their father in front of their children, who tell their children how their father starves his children by feeding them the bread in front of them. How a father fights all day for the sustenance of his children. What sacrifices and sufferings he faces for the better future of his children – how he destroys himself to put them on their feet, destroys himself. Then by going somewhere, the children become capable of something. That is why the children do not understand this until they become fathers themselves and by then it is too late.*