Woman Installs Anti-Mother-In-Law Gate to Curb Surprise Visits

She ultimately ends her post asking for some advice on how to best handle the situation because it appears that even the gate isn’t working its intended magic.

“DH has told her time and again to call or text before coming over, and she does about half the time, but only to say ‘I’m in the car, I’ll be there in 5 minutes’ instead of asking if it’s alright to pop over or she will just show up and say ‘but it was just spontaneous’ when asked why she didn’t call. I’m at my wits end here, AIBU for wanting to pull the curtains closed and ignore her next time she turns up?”