Who Is Dana Carvey’s Wife? Meet Paula Zwagerman

The Gist:

• Dana Carvey has been married to his wife Paula Zwagerman for 40 years.
• The two have two children together: Dex and Thomas.
• Dex’s death from an accidental drug overdose was first announced on Nov. 16, 2023, via a statement on Dana’s Instagram.

In a post on her Instagram page from Nov. 16, 2023, Dana Carvey and his wife Paula Zwagerman, announced that their son, Dex Carvey, had died. Following the news of his death, many had questions about Dex and how he had died at just 32 years. Some also wanted to learn more about the comedian’s entire family in the aftermath of the tragedy.

In particular, some wondered who Dana’s wife is and how long the two of them have been together. Dana and Paula have a 40 year-marriage, and by all accounts, it has been a remarkably stable one.

Dana first married his childhood sweetheart, Leah, in 1979. During their marriage, Dana was performing comedy at a venue called The Other Cafe in San Francisco, which is where he met Paula. The two quickly became romantically involved, and Dana and Leah divorced in 1980. Dana and Paula got engaged in 1981, and they were married two years later, in 1983. Since then, she has stayed largely out of the public eye, and appeared only in one of her husband’s projects.

Dana and Paula had two children together. Dex was born in 1991, and Thomas was born in 1994. After rising to stardom on Saturday Night Live through the early part of the 1990s, Dana took the later years of the decade off from work in part so that he could be present for his kids’ childhoods. He also underwent heart bypass surgery in 1997 and may have stepped away in part for his own recovery.

Dana’s family is in the news in November 2023 following the tragic announcement of his son’s death. In a post on Instagram, Dana explained that Dex’s death was caused by an “accidental drug overdose.” They didn’t specify what drug he had taken, but instead paid legacy to the life their son had led over the course of his 32 years.