Were Lauren Graham and Matthew Perry Ever in a Relationship?

The Gist:

• Following news of his death, many people are wondering whether Matthew Perry and Lauren Graham ever dated.
• They never did, but Lauren once described him as “my friend who I almost but never exactly dated.”
• They did work together, and Matthew described Lauren as one of his favorite people in the course of them making The Odd Couple.

Following the news of Matthew Perry’s death at the age of 54 on Oct. 28, 2023, many people are looking back on his life and the many relationships he forged over the course of his career. Matthew’s relationships with the rest of the Friends cast are obviously getting a lot of attention, but others are considering his romantic life, with a focus on one potential relationship, in particular.

Matthew and Lauren Graham, the star of Gilmore Girls, were becoming major stars at roughly the same time. The two were also romantically linked, but many want to know whether they actually dated. Did they date each other or were they just part of some online gossip?

Matthew and Lauren were romantically linked in 2003, but the two of them never officially confirmed that they were dating. Lauren has suggested that they were flirtatious, but nothing more. If they did date, it wasn’t a very long or serious relationship. Years later, though, the two actually teamed up for a CBS reboot of The Odd Couple. Matthew starred on the show and Lauren played his ex-wife.

When the two did a Q&A about the show, Matthew was effusive in his praise for Lauren.

“She’s one of my favorite people,” he said, “We have great chemistry when working together and it’s fun to work with a close friend.”

Matthew and Lauren apparently remained friends for years to come. In an excerpt from her memoir, Lauren explained exactly what their relationship was like.

“The only bright spot, men-wise, was at an event where I met Matthew Perry,” she wrote in her memoir. “He became my friend who I almost but never exactly dated.”

Clearly, then, there were some sparks between them, but those sparks never turned into an actual relationship. Lauren and Matthew both dated other people over the years, but they never ended up together, even though it seems like they could have.