Another person who goes by u/pinkorangegold concurred and proposed another possible compromise:

“If this is such a thing, he could’ve gotten her a lovely blush accessory like a hairpiece or some flowers in the bouquet or a sash or something,” they said.

“There are so many ways to welcome OP into the family and this tradition without forcing her to wear a blush dress (which is not even a color all women look good in or are comfortable in, as it’s not a neutral).”

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/jenniferadams2/aita-white-wedding-dress