When Cass and Alexa first moved in together, their apartment was much smaller, so they tried to see what division of labor happened naturally. “As you can imagine, that didn’t go well, and a lot of the mental load fell on Alexa,” they said.

“At that time, I hadn’t been diagnosed with ADHD yet — that didn’t happen until after we got married in 2021 — and I remember how frustrated I would get with myself for not being able to remember to do these simple tasks and getting frustrated with Alexa for repeatedly asking me to do a chore,” they added.

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/ravenishak/adhd-couple-relationship-hack