Others had plenty to say about the family as a whole:

“Had I heard any indication of this chatter from my partner’s family, I’d hightail it out of there. Not quite sure how this partner became a fiancé…I don’t think the dude has any redeeming qualities if his family is this presumptuous and snooty, and he does nothing to correct it.”

—u/dominiquetiu

“Hard to see them as nice when I cannot imagine ever even implying that a person I’m speaking with — let alone someone who’s engaged to my child —might be a gold digger. (I don’t use that term, but I’ve always assumed it was a ‘behind the back’ kind of insult anyway.) Maybe that’s nicer than outright saying, ‘We don’t approve of your relationship with our son, you’re beneath him,’ but only barely.”

—u/ViscountBurrito

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/reddit-woman-fiance-gold-digger