Reddit Shares Things That Caused Relationships To End

12. “He married someone else while we lived together.”

“Short version: he worked construction and stayed at the hotel he was remodeling during the week because it was almost four hours plus round trip per day because of traffic. Friday through Monday mornings he was still at our apartment.

He started acting weird, trying to flip it on me and I ended up finding proof he was cheating. He begged me not to leave, I told him I needed space think things through. While I was sorting out my feelings, his marriage certificate arrives at our apartment. Best part, it was to another girl, not even the one I caught him cheating on me with.

I confronted him, he started crying (again) and stated he did it for us and ACTUALLY meant it. Apparently this maid at the hotel caught his eye and he said he would never know if I was really the love of his life unless he got to know her because she’d always be his what if. So he started talking to her and learned she was getting deported because she was in the country illegally. So he married her…’For us’ and seriously wanted me to stick around while he figured out his feelings.

Needless to say, I didn’t stick around. Also, I haven’t dated since because that REALLY fucked me up.” 

—u/Disco_Tits411