Mom Spent Daughter’s College Money On Herself AITA

Another poster suggested that the daughter not ask for the bonus, because then she would likely end up never getting back the full amount she was owed.

“Her back pay has nothing to do with you, but you do need to find out what happened to that $15,000 your dad told you about. Do not conflate one pot of money with another pot of money. Your mother may owe you $15,000. If you ask for part of the back pay and your mother gives you any amount, she will tell you she can’t afford it and already gave you money if you ask about the $15K again.” —u/Sprezzatura1988

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/madisonmcgee/aita-woman-wants-mom-to-help-pay-debt