Many readers felt that her ex’s girlfriend was overstepping boundaries and trying to co-opt her pregnancy:

“She is going too far about her wanting to be called mama, and she is overstepping her role. She has told people that she’s having YOUR babies the unconventional way, so be very wary. She’s not even his wife.”

– u/EB1625

“She’s treating you like a handmaid from the Handmaid Tale. Please be safe.”

– u/Ofstabler

“She was trying to live through you.”

– u/nallysa

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/alexalisitza/treating-me-like-surrogate-aita