23 Women Shared What Men Should Not Do On First Dates

“Stop badmouthing your ex! I do not want to know the details of her cheating, turning your kids against you, taking all your money in the divorce, or how toward the end of your relationship, she turned controlling, frigid, and distant. I’ve been in enough bad relationships myself, and believe me, girlfriends talk! I know enough about all their relationships, too, to know that most women do not just turn on a good partner. Instead of focusing on her, tell me what you’ve learned about yourself, the self-work you’ve done, how you can be a better partner, what you are doing now to attract a partner that is better suited for you, etc. Doing so is infinitely more attractive to women. Remember: Men assume they are competing with the top 10% of other men when, in reality, they are competing with the peace a woman feels when she’s alone. Any woman aware of her value will prioritize her peace over any drama with your ex.”

—Anonymous