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“That ‘love’ is primarily a feeling. In a long-term committed relationship, love is a verb. It’s something you choose to do consistently with your partner. It means choosing your words and actions in a way that honors their feelings and needs. It requires treating your partner with respect, dignity, and compassion day in and day out. Those things are an absolute prerequisite and foundation for healthy love.”
—u/FlyinPurplePartyPony
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/ravenishak/relationship-misconceptions