4.

“Most of my family doesn’t know that I was sexually abused as a child. I am 28 now, and only came forward to my parents about four years ago. The rest know nothing about it.”

—u/arjsweetland

“I’m so sorry you went through that. I also went through sexual abuse as a child, and I told my parents when I was 12 years old (three years after the abuse). They did absolutely nothing about it and just swept it under the rug. 

At 13 I went to counseling, and then as the years went by I was in and out of therapy because I was sexually assaulted by my ex-brother-in-law. And just like with my childhood sexual abuse, nothing was done. I regret not pressing charges, and my family wasn’t encouraging me to do so, either.”

—u/Ill_Funny_5052

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/kaylayandoli/women-mental-burdens-family-doesnt-know