9.

“We’ve had multiple MFF threesomes. It’s fun, but it didn’t work for us. It was 10 years ago, and neither of us have any interest in it these days. She always did all the setup work — that was the agreement. I wasn’t involved until whoever my wife found showed up at our house. My wife was very involved in the act, but I could sense some underlying jealousy from her. She insisted it could have just been the individual she chose, so she tried another few times, and it seemed to me it never went away.”

“Eventually I just told her I wasn’t interested anymore, and things have been great ever since (I still don’t know why she kept trying when I tried to tell her she shouldn’t if she was uncomfortable — I even offered to try an MFM, but she shot that down right away). 

There were never any arguments or cold shoulders about it. I just sensed she wasn’t fully comfortable, talked to her about it, and eventually realized that she wasn’t going to stop and I needed to just tell her I’m not in anymore.”

—u/MyWifeisaTroll

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/kaylayandoli/mens-relationships-after-threesomes