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“Your social life really changes a lot when you are out of school, be prepared. Meeting people and making friends becomes harder, as does following your interests. But, the good news is, you have opportunities to do both those things way better than before and with better results. Put the energy into meeting new people, get rid of your toxic friends from school — but keep the quality ones, of course.”
“Once you’re out of high school, and definitely out of college, having a ton of friends in one or few groups just isn’t that valuable. There is no need to put up with people who don’t support you, compete with you, use you, can’t stop complaining, or are otherwise toxic. And make sure to make time for your own interests, outside of work and hanging out with your friends or partner. This is really key to staying happy and stable and beating the loneliness that can come with ‘adult’ life. It’s what makes this your best life.”
—u/zazzlekdazzle
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/fabianabuontempo/advice-for-people-entering-their-30s
