Man Asks if He’s a Jerk for Going to His Best Friend’s Wedding Instead of His Wife’s Birthday Party

Well, this sure sounds like a conundrum, doesn’t it?

This guy seemed to be on the fence about going to his wife’s birthday party or his best friend’s wedding.

What’s a man supposed to do?!?!

Check out his story below and see if you think he made the wrong choice.

“My wife is turning 30 and has planned a big birthday party with her friends and family, unfortunately my best friend has also got his wedding on the same evening.

I have picked my best friend’s wedding as we are very close and I do not get along with my wife’s family.

My wife is now furious with me and demanding that I do not go to the wedding, but I can’t go back on the commitment I made to my best friend.

So, am I the a**hole for going to the wedding anyway?”

Now let’s see what Reddit users said about this.

One person said made a good point about the timeline here.

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Another viewer talked about how much time friends usually give people when they’re getting married.

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And one Reddit user said this guy is going to screw up his marriage for someone who doesn’t even sound like a very good friend.

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This one is easy for me. Birthdays are every year. Weddings don’t come along very often.

Choose the wedding.