“Major NTA. That’s information you need before the wedding. Like, well before the wedding. Firstly, whatever clothes you wear will probably be ruined. Secondly, you need to bring towels and a change of pants. Thirdly, it’s perfectly reasonable not to want to stand in river/creek water for any reason at all.
Your spouse is a massive AH for not telling you in advance, and the couple are massive AHs for refusing to go on without you in the water. Don’t feel guilty, this is on them (mostly your spouse) and not on you.”
—u/allgood177
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/angelicaamartinez/aita-river-wedding