13 Friendship Red Flags That Mean You Need a New Bestie

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We all know about the dating red flags. People in 2018 are so crucially cringe, they’ll ghost you on a date, leave you hanging with a bill, or reveal their true bigoted colors the very first time you talk. But that’s when friends step in to make everything better, right? 

Theoretically. Unless you’re also dealing with a bad friend who will rejoice in your failure and put themselves and their problems before yours every time. 

If you think you might be dealing with a manipulative friend or unhealthy platonic relationship, read on for these friendship red flags that should have you looking for a new BFF. Like, ASAP.

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When they only talk about themselves and their problems.

2

When they only hit you up because they need something.

3

When they need a ride to the party but you’re not invited to the party.

4

When they know it means a lot to you and still don’t show up.

5

When they don’t notice you’ve been in the hospital for half a year.

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When you drop everything for them but they can’t be bothered to lend you a hand.

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When they call you their best friend right after meeting you.

8

When they take your money and run.

9

When you’re the token friend.

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When they have friendship double-standards.

11

When they’re not happy about your successes.

12

When they talk behind your other friends’ backs.

13

When they push you off a 60 ft. bridge.

Source : https://www.distractify.com/relationships/2018/08/20/zTXHh/friendship-red-flags