We all know about the dating red flags. People in 2018 are so crucially cringe, they’ll ghost you on a date, leave you hanging with a bill, or reveal their true bigoted colors the very first time you talk. But that’s when friends step in to make everything better, right?
Theoretically. Unless you’re also dealing with a bad friend who will rejoice in your failure and put themselves and their problems before yours every time.
If you think you might be dealing with a manipulative friend or unhealthy platonic relationship, read on for these friendship red flags that should have you looking for a new BFF. Like, ASAP.
When they only talk about themselves and their problems.
When they only hit you up because they need something.
When they need a ride to the party but you’re not invited to the party.
When they know it means a lot to you and still don’t show up.
When they don’t notice you’ve been in the hospital for half a year.
When you drop everything for them but they can’t be bothered to lend you a hand.
When they call you their best friend right after meeting you.
When they take your money and run.
When you’re the token friend.
When they have friendship double-standards.
When they’re not happy about your successes.
When they talk behind your other friends’ backs.
When they push you off a 60 ft. bridge.