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“He had been stalking another woman since he was 19. He would intentionally get new jobs to be closer to her, and I followed him from 26 to 29. I was the backup that he conned into a relationship when we were 26 since this woman kept rejecting him. But, other women had been victims of his con, too. COVID hit, and she relocated to Texas at some point. One of our mutual friends found out he was going to Texas, too, and he mentioned a woman’s name but quickly backtracked. Our friend texted me because it was highly suspicious and he didn’t want me to get hurt (this guy was a nice, ethical guy who loved his wife and respected other women). My mom has a talent for finding lots of info online with just a name and a location. She pieced together an entire story.”
“My boyfriend and this woman went to undergrad college together. She was a writer who blogged about many personal details and mentioned his name in a post. She would get a job in a new state, and he’d move there within a few months. In a Facebook post, my mom found one of his prior ‘backups,’ and I reached out to her. All the details were confirmed. He conned her like he had conned me.
COVID quarantines made it super easy to cut off people. I deleted his number, moved back in with my family, and never spoke to him again. I checked his social media a few months ago, and I guess being a creepy stalker worked because he married that woman. From her blog posts, I gathered she has very low self-esteem, and she bought into the theory that women were spoiled milk after 25, so I am assuming that’s why she married her stalker.”
—u/Naraee
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahdobro/people-whose-marriage-plans-changed
