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“No large amounts of money in our joint account! 100% my rule because I have a major tendency to want to help others, as well as a shopping problem. I literally bought my sister a car, paid off her debt to the insurance company, and paid the first year in full. I had the funds to do so outright (prior to marriage), but I have yet to tell my husband ALL of the details on that, especially since my sister and I don’t have a relationship anymore. He has a savings and a checking in his name, then we have a joint checking account. He transfers money over every week so I can grocery shop, get my coffees, and do stuff with our kids. Plus, I’m always able to ask for more if needed.”
“I just know I’m the type who would sponsor a dolphin if someone asked me to, and we’d have no savings! My husband and I value open communication and have full access to each other’s everything, minus me having access to the thousands upon thousands of dollars he’s been able to save by me not having free, unsupervised access.”
—Anonymous
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahdobro/unique-relationship-practices