Meanwhile, people who have also dealt with infertility and IVF lent their perspectives on the matter.
“I struggled with infertility, and I went through many rounds of treatment, including two IVFs. I know how hard it is for your sister, and sure hope she finds what she’s looking for, but sadly her IVF might not work. You can’t gamble away that money if it can help actual living children. If your sister’s IVF doesn’t work, it won’t be wasted, but it wouldn’t be the best use for the money. You made the right choice.”
—u/katsgegg
“Infertility is really, really hard. Finding out you’re not pregnant again is devastating. Even worse if you get pregnant and miscarry. I feel for your sister and what she’s going through. But there are three young children who need food, clothes, a roof over their head, warmth, and enrichment. Three birthdays a year and lots of presents at Christmas. Three pairs of feet that outgrow their shoes in the blink of an eye. Three actual real human beings who are already here and need to be taken care of.”
—u/krickets42
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/ivf-inheritance-aita-reddit
