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“We dated for a few months. From the beginning, though, he was just embarrassing. We had mutual friends, and he would spend full outings, parties, and weekend trips voicing his disbelief that I was dating him. Telling people how lucky he was in a self-deprecating way that was gross, that he’d ‘won the lotto’ and I was ‘out of his league.’ No matter how many times I asked him to quit, he did it every single time we were in public. It got so bad that his best friend actually snapped and told him in the middle of a self-deprecating rant how embarrassing it was, and to look at how uncomfortable he was making me.”
“That started a huge argument: ‘But she’s a queen, I’m just treating her like one!’ When I had the audacity to agree with his friend, full-cry melt down in front of everyone. I broke up with him that weekend. The breakup lasted for hours with me begging him to get out of my house while he cried and cried and cried about how he treated me so well, how could I do this to him. Then, it turned to rage. I had to block him on everything when I started dating someone months later, and a lot of friends blocked him as well when they found out he was stalking me. If you’re dating someone and they act like you’re doing them a favor, don’t date that person.”
—u/BrownSugarBare
Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/nice-guys-chance-stories